The Great Indian Kitchen: Why Is This Movie Important? (2024)

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At times we come across certain slice-of-life movies that tug at our heart-strings and make us feel for their characters. The Great Indian Kitchen, a Malayalam film written and directed by Jeo Baby, is one such cinematic gem. It is the tale of a "Husband" and "Wife" who get married in a typical arranged marriage: one high tea and two minutes of privacy. We are never told their names, because we don't need to know them, as this can be the story of any household. She is born and brought up in Bahrain, well-educated and progressive, while his family is highly conservative. And thus begins her struggle for adjustment with her in-laws after the marriage.

With a runtime of 100 minutes, the audience is subjected to repeated montages of the wife doing her daily household chores. She is following the same routine every day, day after day: cooking, washing, cleaning, picking up the leftovers after meals, dealing with plumbing issues, lighting the evening lamp, wrapping up the kitchen and performing nightly conjugal duty for her husband. It is a testament to the craft of the director and the cinematographer that we can actually feel the monotony of her life and her anguish because of it. They force the viewer to walk in her shoes and feel suffocated by the tentacles of patriarchy, which still thrives and flourishes in South Asia.

She is not allowed to work by her father-in-law because, according to him, when a woman stays in the house it brings prosperity to the family. After several nights of painful sex, when she requests her husband to engage in foreplay, he rebuffs her by stating that he doesn't find her attractive. Before eating every meal, she first has to pick up the chewed leftovers of the men of the house, who couldn't be bothered to clean up after eating. During her periods, her husband's aunt forces her to sleep on the floor, bathe in the river and stay holed up in a room like a prisoner. Her mother constantly advises her to adjust because she is lucky to be married into such a prestigious family. Her mother-in-law understands her pain but she has already accepted her own fate and thus has no energy or will to stand up for her daughter-in-law.

The final nail in the coffin comes when her father-in-law and husband threaten to throw her out of the house if she does not delete her Facebook post supporting the Sabarimala verdict. This is when she snaps and decides that she has had enough.

This movie is a poignant reminder that it is not just physical violence that makes a marriage or relationship abusive. The act of stifling someone's spirit or making them feel impure or undesirable also counts as abuse. Even today many women, including educated and working ones, bear with the drudgery of their daily lives (in some cases, juggling both home and office) unquestioningly because they have been taught that it is the duty of a woman to adjust and compromise. Why? Why can't everyone pitch in and help her? Why do the majority of men consider it beneath their ego to prepare their own tea and expect their wives to hand it to them?

A lot of readers might disagree, thinking that they belong to the New India, and I agree that there are some men who are progressive and actively support their better halves or mothers. But sadly, this species of liberal and "woke" men is still a very minuscule part of the population. If men think that they are doing a favour by helping women around the house, then it is not gender equality. Preparing a meal or loading the washing machine shouldn't be reserved for Women's Day or birthdays. "Share the load" should be the motto for everything, every day.

The Great Indian Kitchen is important because it is real. It portrays real issues that plague real women. Even in the climax there is no dramatic change of heart or last-minute epiphanies. The wife walks out of the house to pursue her dreams, while the husband finds a second wife to cater to his needs. This powerful scene reminded me of Mahesh Manjrekar's Astitva (another gem), where Tabu's Aditi takes the same route in the end.

Here lies the beauty of the message: if we want society to change, we, the women, will have to change first. We will have to stand up for ourselves and teach our daughters to do the same and not compromise on their dignity just for the sake of "ghar ki shaanti".

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The Great Indian Kitchen: Why Is This Movie Important? ›

This is when she snaps and decides that she has had enough. This movie is a poignant reminder that it is not just physical violence that makes a marriage or relationship abusive. The act of stifling someone's spirit or making them feel impure or undesirable also counts as abuse.

What is the significance of the movie The Great Indian Kitchen? ›

Although the title suggests a topic relating to cooking, the film is actually about the women who owns those kitchens, the first few days of a newlywed in her new house, and the amount of work that goes into creating Indian traditional cuisine.

What is the discussion of the Great Indian Kitchen? ›

The movie is about patriarchy, is simple and subtle but at the same time, raw and blunt. It revolves around what happens in a traditional family in an avg. Indian household, not only in Kerala.

What is the story of the Great Indian Kitchen summary on Wikipedia? ›

The Great Indian Kitchen is a 2021 Indian Malayalam-language drama film written and directed by Jeo Baby. The film tells the story of a newly-wed woman (Nimisha Sajayan) who struggles to be the submissive wife that her husband (Suraj Venjaramood) and his family expect her to be. The music was composed by Sooraj S.

Is Great Indian Kitchen hit or flop? ›

The Great Indian Kitchen was released in theatres on 3 February 2023. The film was initially scheduled to be released in theatres on 29 November 2022, but got postponed. The film opened to highly positive reviews from critics and audiences.

What is the film Kitchen about summary? ›

What happens at the end of the Great Indian Kitchen? ›

The film could end with that triumphant note, in a way it does, except for the scene with her ex-husband now with a new wife who he charms the same way he did his first. She is happy cooking and he drinks from the cup, placing it down on the kitchen table once he is finished.

How did the movie The Kitchen end? ›

The Final Scenes of 'The Kitchen' Explained

Izi and Benji flee while the police are tasing and detaining citizens at random. It's a melee by the time they get to Izi's flat. A cop grabs Benji, but Izi grabs a nearby fire extinguisher and neutralizes the cop. They run into the apartment, locking the door behind them.

Where was the great Indian kitchen released? ›

The movie will be available to stream on Zee5 in Tamil, Telugu and Kannada. The film was released in theatres on February 3, 2023 and received great acclamations from the audience and critics. 'The Great India Kitchen' is the remake of the Malayalam film of the same name starring Nimisha Sajayan and Suraj Venjaramoodu.

Who wrote the great Indian kitchen? ›

What is the great Indian story? ›

The Great Indian Novel is a satirical novel by Shashi Tharoor, first published by Viking Press in 1989. It is a fictional work that takes the story of the Mahabharata, the Indian epic, and recasts and resets it in the context of the Indian Independence Movement and the first three decades post-independence.

What is the story of the great Indian family? ›

Who is the owner of Great Indian Kitchen? ›

Tony Benzigar - Founder - Great Indian Kitchen | LinkedIn.

Is Mrs a remake of The Great Indian Kitchen? ›

Mrs, helmed by Arati Kadav, stars Sanya Malhotra, Nishant Dahiya and Kanwaljit Singh in the lead roles. The film is the Hindi remake of Jeo Baby's critically acclaimed Malayalam movie The Great Indian Kitchen.

What is the biggest flop in India? ›

India's biggest flop, which earned Rs 8 crore only

In 1988, actor-filmmaker V Ravinchandran launched an ambitious pan-India film Shanti Kranti.

Is Great Indian Kitchen on prime? ›

Prime Video: The Great Indian Kitchen.

What is the movie about the Indian chef in New York? ›

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What is the movie about Indian and French cooking? ›

The Kadam family leaves India for France where they open a restaurant directly across the road from Madame Mallory's Michelin-starred eatery. The Kadam family leaves India for France where they open a restaurant directly across the road from Madame Mallory's Michelin-starred eatery.

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